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What kind of behavior could be considered a sign of relationship abuse?
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a. Your partner takes a nap while you're talking to him or her about something important.
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b. Your partner tells you that you're fat and ugly.
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c. Your partner lets you know that he/she doesn't like it when you "flirt" with other people.
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d. You're a vegetarian, and your partner makes you eat at a restaurant with no veggie menu.
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What's a good way to help a friend who's in an abusive relationship?
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a. Offer to beat up your friend's partner.
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b. Offer to burn down your friend's partner's house.
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c. Listen when your friend wants to talk about the relationship.
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d. Remind your friend that he/she is beautiful, smart, and fun to be around.
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True love is...
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a. Never having to say, "I'm sorry."
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b. Feeling that your partner's needs are just as important as your own.
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c. When your partner is jealous and possessive--that's how you know he/she loves you.
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d. When you and your partner love spending all your time together.
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Why do people abuse their partners?
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a. Because the abuser drinks too much and can't control him/herself when drunk.
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b. Because the partner makes the abuser so angry.
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c. Because the abuse is trying to control the partner.
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d. Because they don't have much money and this causes stress in the relationship.
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Which of the following behaviors could be considered a sign of dating violence?
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a. You and your partner are having an argument in the car, and your partner keeps swerving into the oncoming lane until you agree.
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b. When you try to end the relationship, your partner says he/she can't live without you and threatens suicide.
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c. You have an argument about what to do on a Friday night, so you decide to spend the evening alone and don't speak until the next day.
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d. After you go out on a Friday night with your friends, your partner falsely accuses you of cheating.
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Which of the following may be a reason a person would have a difficult time leaving an abusive relationship?
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a. The victim likes the abuse -- because he/she likes drama.
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b. The victim still loves his/her partner.
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c. The victim feels obligated to help his/her partner change there bad habits.
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d. The victim has been lying to you, and the abuse isn't really happening.
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Which of the following is an important part of a healthy, loving relationship?
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a. Spending all your time together.
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b. Valuing each other's opinions and ideas.
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c. Having a partner spend a lot of money on you.
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d. Your partner is totally hot.
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How do you keep safe in a dating relationship?
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a. Communicate with your partner about your expectations.
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b. Carry a gun.
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c. Just don't date--it's the only way to stay safe.
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d. Get to know yourself and your beliefs before jumping into relationships.
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